ASSOCIATES (vol. 4, no. 2, November 1997) - associates.ucr.edu
Two months ago I turned 40. I'm not whining about this. After all, I'm certainly not alone. Since 1957 was the biggest year of the post-World War II Baby Boom, there are many people in the same situation....trust me, I run into us all of the time. Turning 40 really isn't a big deal, but I've had some interesting experiences in the past two months that I can't blame on anything else. There's the day I realized that I was having a real hard time reading the fine print in books when I'm working at the reference desk. I'm sure my next visit to my optometrist will be very interesting as a result, about as interesting as my last visit to the dentist (that reads $$$). And one day a few weeks ago, I did have trouble finding my car in the grocery store parking lot. Besides the physical things, I've also found myself reflecting on events and experiences in my life so far. But, I'm also looking forward to the future... In reflecting back, I've thought about my parents, especially my father who had a big influence on my view of the world. One of the biggest lessons he taught me was, when things aren't going the way you planned, it doesn't work to blame someone else. I can remember many frustrating conversations as a teenager, trying to lay the blame for one thing or another on someone else by using the line "they did it". That didn't work with my dad. I don't think the word "they" or "them" was in his vocabulary. His response to these statements always was "who are they". Why didn't "you" do something to make things different? That is, if you didn't like what happened, why didn't you change it. Needless to say, this drove me nuts, and I often couldn't understand his point. But, as I was forced more and more to face the world and stand up for myself, it became apparent to me that he was right. Nothing changes unless you make it change. Leads right into one of his other favorite lines...."there's a method to my madness." Looking ahead, I realize, that with almost 18 years of work at the library under my belt, I have at least another 25 years of work life left ahead of me. And, I'd wager that a big portion of those years will be in the same place I am now. But, that thought doesn't depress me....which is good. I'm not saying I have the best job in the world, but, I don't have the worst job either. Like everyone else, I have some really frustrating days when I go home feeling really beat up or down. It wouldn't be work without days like that. But, in order to get through bad days, and get up and face another day, it's important for me to know that I am doing something to make a difference--someplace. Since work is so much a part of my life, I've gotten involved in library support staff issues. And, I feel pretty good about that. So, what do the personal memories and visions of this 40 year old have to do with any of you? Hah, there's a method to my madness! There are many issues that are near and dear to the heart of every library assistant and support staff person. Better pay, respect, opportunities for advancement, we all know the litany. Attend any support staff program at a conference and you're going to hear about them, either as part of the program, or at the informal gatherings associated with the conference. We want to change the way the world perceives the work we do. What have YOU done to change it? Are you waiting for "them" to change it, meaning the leadership of your state or local library assistants group, or COLT or ALA SSIRT. Well, surprise, "they" need help from every one of you reading this. And you aren't allowed any excuses to say no! You don't have to belong to any group, or spend any money to write an article for _ASSOCIATES_ or _Library Mosaics_. Think how many people your article would reach, and what help you can be to someone else by sharing some of your thoughts, experiences, or revelations. And then there is that rush of pride when you see your name in print. How about volunteering for a committee in your library---even if it is planning the next holiday party. Don't laugh, you can do a lot toward showing off your organizational and planning skills by being on a committee like this. If you do belong to your local or state association, be willing to get involved, don't just sit back and wait for someone else to run the show. All you have to do is be willing to say "yes" and you can make a big difference. You'll find out there isn't a big mysterious "they" making the decisions. You'll find out it is people, just like you. People who have turned 40, who's eyes are going, and who can't find their car in the parking lot. ...and when she finds the car and puts the bags in the trunk, she discovers she locked her keys in it! Paulette Feld Events Editor, Associates Management Information Technician 2 Polk Library University of Wisconsin Oshkosh feld@uwosh.edu